So I am in a bit of pickle. So my wife and I bought a house 3 years ago. We paid x amount of money on it. Now our house is worth (x- 70,000 ish) So we have lost our butts on the house so far. We are making our payments just fine. But then there is this thought that if we were to short sale our house, we could have an opportunity to move into a different house, that is “better” and much cheaper. So… we save money (thousands) by getting into a house at the current value, we get a newer bigger house. Here is my dilemma: 1) is this ethical? 2) is it possible? 3) why would the bank do this? 4) is it smart?

If you know anything about the housing market, short sales, ethics about this issue, then please chime in. I am open to opinions and facts!